Tips to help you stay connected socially during periods of depression
Published by
Arlen "Buddy" Castenada
on July 13, 2024
Engaging socially while managing periods of depression can be challenging, but maintaining social connections is important for your mental health. Here are some tips to help you stay connected:
1. Start Small
- Low-Key Activities: Begin with low-pressure social activities like having coffee with a friend or going for a walk.
- Short Duration: Keep initial interactions short to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
2. Set Realistic Expectations
- Understand that it’s okay if you don’t feel up to long or intense social engagements.
- Be honest with yourself and others about what you can handle.
3. Use Technology
- Virtual Meetups: Use video calls, texting, or social media to stay in touch when face-to-face interaction feels too daunting.
- Online Communities: Join online support groups where people understand what you're going through.
4. Plan Ahead
- Schedule Social Time: Put specific times on your calendar for social activities so they become part of your routine.
- Prepare Mentally: Think about topics of conversation in advance to reduce anxiety.
5. Lean on Trusted Friends and Family
- Open Up: Share your feelings with close friends or family members who are supportive and understanding.
- Ask for Help: Don’t hesitate to ask loved ones for support in making plans or even just checking in on you regularly.
6. Join Support Groups
- Peer Support Groups: Consider joining a local or online support group where you can share experiences and coping strategies with others who understand what you're going through.
7. Engage in Group Activities You Enjoy
- Hobbies and Interests: Participate in group activities related to hobbies you enjoy, such as book clubs, sports teams, or art classes.
8. Practice Self-Care Before Socializing
- Rest Well: Ensure you're well-rested before engaging socially; fatigue can make interactions more difficult.
- Relaxation Techniques: Practice deep breathing exercises or mindfulness meditation beforehand to reduce anxiety.
9. Be Kind To Yourself
- Accept Imperfection:** Understand that it’s okay if not every interaction goes perfectly; the effort itself is valuable.
- Celebrate Small Wins:** Acknowledge any progress you make, no matter how small it may seem.
Remember that it's perfectly okay to take breaks when needed and prioritize self-care during this time.
